Terms of use

Age restriction

This site is intended for adults aged 18 and over, or the age of majority where you live, whichever is higher. If you are under that age, please leave.

Nature of the information

Everything here is general information. It is not legal advice, not medical advice and not psychological or relationship counselling, and it is not a substitute for any of those. Laws, health guidance and venue rules vary by jurisdiction and change over time.

Where a question genuinely matters to your circumstances — employment consequences, family law, a health decision, anything with money attached — consult someone qualified in your jurisdiction rather than relying on a website.

Accuracy

We take care to be accurate and we correct errors when we find them or when they are pointed out. We cannot guarantee that everything here is current or complete, particularly regarding venues, local rules and health guidance, all of which change.

Affiliate disclosure

This site contains affiliate links. If you create an account through one of them, we may earn a commission at no additional cost to you. This is disclosed in the footer of every page and marked in the page source. We are not responsible for the content, terms or conduct of any third-party platform.

External links

Links to other sites are provided for convenience. We do not control them, do not endorse them by linking, and are not responsible for their content or their handling of your data.

Acceptable use

Do not use this site unlawfully, do not attempt to interfere with its operation, and do not scrape or republish substantial portions of it without permission. Content on this site is protected by copyright.

Limitation of liability

This site is provided as is. To the fullest extent permitted by law, we accept no liability for any loss arising from reliance on the information here, from your use of any third-party platform, or from any decision you make in your personal life.

Nothing in these terms limits liability where the law does not permit it to be limited.

No relationship with venues or platforms

We are not affiliated with, endorsed by or responsible for any club, event, resort or dating platform mentioned or linked to on this site. We do not operate events, do not verify anyone, and cannot vouch for any person or business you encounter.

Where we describe how venues generally work — membership models, alcohol arrangements, dress codes, admission policies — that is a general description of common practice and not a statement about any particular venue. Policies vary and change. Confirm anything that matters directly with the operator before you travel.

Health and legal information

Pages covering testing, safer sex and legal questions describe general practice and general principles. Clinical guidance differs between countries and is updated regularly, and law differs between states, counties and municipalities. Neither should be relied on in place of advice from a clinician or a lawyer in your own jurisdiction.

Your own decisions

Everything described here involves consenting adults making their own choices. Reading this site does not make us a party to those choices, and we accept no responsibility for the outcome of any decision you take about your own relationships, health, employment or travel.

Governing terms

If any provision of these terms is found unenforceable, the remainder continues to apply. Failure to enforce a provision is not a waiver of it.

Changes

These terms may be updated. Continued use of the site after a change constitutes acceptance of the revised version.